Thursday 19 January 2012

Where did you say you were from?


I was looking at the “likes” on a link I had posted to Facebook today and saw that the two people concerned were related although they probably didn’t realise it!  It got me to thinking about my genealogy efforts and the family tree.
I started the research about ten years ago.  I’m not sure what prompted me to even think of it – maybe it was the realisation that the years were catching up with me and I needed to know more about  my past?  It certainly  had a little to do with me wanting my grandchildren to know about their background (at least on my side of the family).  I’m not really sure,  but most of the people I’ve come into contact with throughout those years since I started have been in and around my age bracket so maybe it is a case of realising that we aren’t immortal after all.

I surfed the internet, picking up hints on “how to” and then my local library ran a short course on the subject and I was off……
I bought my first version of “Family Tree Maker” (I’m 3 versions in now!) and duly entered my name. I put all the family that I knew of in, back to my grandparents and started searching the genealogy websites.  I uploaded the information I had to a couple of more well known sites and within no time I started getting emails from people who thought they might be related or who had information that might be useful.  Two of my earliest contacts were from the Lawrie/Laurie side of the family and came from Northumberland  and, of all places, New Zealand.

Further delving into the past revealed that my great grandfather’s elder brother had emigrated to New Zealand with his two children back in the 1840s (something no one seems to have known about) and we now seem to be related to half the population of the South Island!  (I believe there wasn’t much to do there in those days once it got dark!).  He moved on to Australia and died in Victoria in the 1890s.  He married again in Australia and there are now more Aussie relatives! So much for Mum and I being the first family members to come to Australia!
I was contacted by my cousin, John on my Father’s side of the family (a family I hadn’t seen since I was about 7 years old!) and he sent me a wonderful old photo of his mother and our aunt with my father when he was about to go off to WWl (he was 16 but lied about his age).
Going back earlier than my Grandmother on that side has been very difficult.  There have been several dead ends and wrong leads and we’ve never found anything about his father (my grandfather).  Seems Grandmother came from Devon but Lord knows what sent her to Birmingham!  I’m sure I’d rather have Devon!
I made contact with relatives on the Good side of the family (Good-Cobban-Lawrie) in USA England and Australia (Jo, Janet and Margaret on Facebook) and was delighted when my second cousin, Sharon, got in touch with me.  Her father, Alan, was the cousin that I grew up with – well until we came to Australia.
All in all though, we seemed to be a fairly mundane family.  No real skeletons but more than a sprinkling of shot gun weddings (tut tut in Victorian times too!!!).  That is until GREAT GREAT GREAT GRANNIE URQUHART!

Let me set the picture here.  I’ve lived in Australia most of my life, I’m an Aussie citizen and owe no other allegiance.  One of THE best things (historically) is if you can find a convict in the closet (preferably BEFORE transportation ended rather than today!)  It’s almost Colonial Royalty!  Imagine my delight when I stumbled over the information that Great Great Great Grannie, Euphemia Urquhart (nee Yule) had been a naughty lady and transported for a term of 7 years from Edinburgh to Van Diemen’s Land (now Tasmania).  I paid a researcher to go through the National Archives in Scotland and she sent me over 70 pages of court transcripts, evidence statements and even the list of jurors at her trial.  I got more convict records from Tasmania, including her description upon arrival and the date of her eventual freedom.  She married again to a fellow convict – I might add, while she was still married to Great Great Great Grandfather, George, and never went back to Scotland. She died in Hobart in 1877. So even Peter Lawrie wasn’t the first ancestor to come here.  Mum and I were getting further back in the queue!  It’s of interest to note here that my surviving aunt who is now 92, doesn’t believe a word of this!  She reckons I’m just digging up dirt on the family and I haven’t had a Christmas card since she was told!!!!  When I was in Scotland for The Gathering in 2009 I took a full copy of the information from the National Archives with me and it is now in the Clan Urquhart Archives with the Clan Chief in USA.  In the Clan Parade up the Royal Mile I chose to walk with Clan Urquhart because the old girl had provided me with the most interesting piece of history ever!
The visit to Scotland also gave me the opportunity to visit the village of Chirnside in the Borders where the Lawries all came from  and Perthshire where the Gows originated.  I found the grave of my great great grandparents and great grandparents in the Chirnside churchyard and I must admit I stood there and shed a quiet tear.  I know it sounds corny but I felt I’d come home.  It was so much a part of what I’d been doing all the research for.  I stood outside the house that my mother was born in and passed the church that my grandparents were married in.
Weathered and difficult to read unless you're actiually there.
Peter Lawrie & Alison Lidgate.
James Lawrie & Agnes Blackbell.
plus another son and daughter of James & Agnes.
I’ve managed to go back to about the mid 1700s and we have family scattered all over.  From Scotland they’ve spread to Canada, USA, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, England and now Spain thanks to Sharon and Simon. I just hope that another family member will keep this research going for the future generations.  Not everyone is going to be interested but every now and again  there will be ONE who wants to know who they are and where they came from.
My family tree web site is www.radyer.tribalpages.com






               

3 comments:

  1. I enjoyed your post. It’s a lot like college – we should absorb everything we can but ultimately you need to take what you’ve learned and apply it.
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  2. I so enjoyed your post. We seem to be the generation that wants to dig and find out where we came from and how far we have come. I have one daughter, a sister and two nieces who are interested in what I find but they are doing any of the digging. Once in a while they will find something or remember something but the they leave it to me to check it out. I do worry about what will happen to all my stuff when I go but maybe that is when someone else will pick up the information and run with it.
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    1. That's why I put everything on about 3 websites. Hopefully the family will keep the Tribalpages one going beyond me. It's only about $20 a year and even if they don't add to it it's still there for anyone else who needs the information.

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